My Ex-Hubby passed away this a.m....

just past midnite, the family phone tree lit up....the VA hospital said my Ex had passed quietly in his sleep....
such conflicting emotions...i do mourn for him after knowing him for 37 years...but then there's his treatment of me and his words that still haunt me....
could use a few prayers for his safe passage and to heal me...

Amethyst, I will offer up prayers for you and of course for your ex hubby to have safe passage into the light. Please do not dwell on the past---leave it there. I know you two were divorced, but you still had a strong bond between you and you shared children together. Anything left unsaid between you--say it now to him and be gentle on yourself. You're a good person, and he wouldn't want you to feel badly.

Know now that he is no longer in pain, and he also wouldn't want his loved ones to be sad about this either.

What Celtic Noodle said!!

I will send some healing to you.. and pray that your ex went gently, softly and finds peace.

my sons and i thank you both for your prayers, thoughts, and condolences....
we are hanging in there....

Thoughts and prayers are on the way for you and your family, and for the repose of his soul.